Here are some of her top picks:Looking for the best sex books that not only provide expert advice but also push the boundaries of societal norms and taboos? Susan Quilliam, a relationship coach and author, who updated the classic The Joy of Sex, shares her top recommendations on how to understand sexuality in a deeper, more empowering way. These groundbreaking books, filled with insightful perspectives, are a must-read for anyone interested in sexual health, emotional connection, and breaking sexual taboos.
Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski | A powerful guide on embracing your unique sexuality! This book emphasizes the importance of understanding your sexual instincts and tackling emotional blocks. Nagoski’s perspective encourages readers to trust their bodies and feelings, empowering women to embrace their desires without judgment. A perfect read for those looking to remove their sexual "brakes" and explore true sexual pleasure.
Guide to Getting it On by Paul Joannides | A humorous and comprehensive sex guide Joannides blends accurate, practical information with a lighthearted, fun tone, making it both entertaining and educational. His inclusive approach covers sexual joy, self-acceptance, and emotional connection, ensuring that readers of all ages can engage with and enjoy the content.
The Joy of Sex (1972) by Alex Comfort | A revolutionary sex guide for all This classic sex guide merged medical insights with practical advice on intimacy, offering a new perspective on sexual pleasure in the 1970s. Though outdated in some ways, it paved the way for more open-minded sexual attitudes. Its modern update, The New Joy of Sex (2008), addresses missing topics, like the clitoris, and highlights the importance of sexual health and therapy.
The Hite Report on Female Sexuality (1976) by Shere Hite | A landmark study on women’s sexuality Shere Hite’s groundbreaking research challenged the belief that women should only climax through intercourse. This book was pivotal in shifting the conversation towards a more inclusive understanding of female sexual pleasure, focusing on clitoral stimulation. Despite questions around its methodology, Hite’s work laid the foundation for future studies on female sexuality.
Chéri (1920) by Colette | Exploring aging, desire, and the power of sex at any age This novel tells the story of Léa, a 49-year-old courtesan, and her younger lover, Chéri. With themes of aging, desire, and sexual vitality, Chéri sends a powerful message: that sex is for life, regardless of age. This empowering novel challenges the taboo around older women’s sexuality, reflecting how sexual pleasure and desire can continue to flourish well into middle age and beyond.
Lady Chatterley’s Lover (1928) by D.H. Lawrence | A passionate story that shattered societal norms This iconic novel is not just a love story; it’s a symbol of sexual liberation. Lady Chatterley’s Lover addresses themes of love across class boundaries and emphasizes the idea that sexual fulfillment is vital for holistic well-being. The 1960 trial in the UK marked a crucial turning point for freedom of sexual expression, making the book a landmark in the fight against censorship.
Brokeback Mountain (1997) by Annie Proulx | A raw, unapologetic love story Set against the backdrop of rural America, this short story (and its Oscar-winning film adaptation) explores the tragic love between two men, Ennis and Jack. Proulx depicts their relationship with raw passion, showing that love can be intense, aggressive, and masculine, challenging traditional norms of what “acceptable” love looks like. The story also addresses societal rejection, where love becomes a dangerous act in a world that condemns it.
These books represent key moments in the ongoing conversation around sexuality, desire, and gender norms. Whether you’re looking for a comprehensive guide to enhance your sexual well-being or seeking literature that challenges sexual taboos, these titles will guide you through an open-minded exploration of human intimacy.
Top Recommended Sex Books:
Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski Guide to Getting it On by Paul Joannides The Joy of Sex by Alex Comfort The Hite Report on Female Sexuality by Shere Hite Chéri by Colette Lady Chatterley’s Lover by D.H. Lawrence Brokeback Mountain by Annie ProulxExplore these groundbreaking works of sexual liberation and empowerment for an enlightening journey into human sexuality.
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